I don't either. And I am one.
I just dont understand girls.
I am almost always surprised at how stupid I can act at times.
well, by all means do so... but not so much that your throat hears... Thats what just happened to me at the k-state/texas game yesterday... now i cant talk. sorrry off topic...iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii wwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaant toooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo SCREAM!
well, its good to know that im not the only one....[I don't either. And I am one.
Yes, but not exactly. For instance, right now I have this guy friend that I talk to all the time online and our relationship in person is rather flirtatious. But, he has a long term relationship recently made long distance; as do I. So, there's not really sexual tension, but he's almost like a Mark-surrogate.Anyway, does anyone else do this? Its happened with several girls. You become very good friends with them and end up hanging out almost exclusively with each other. Almost like a surrogate boy/girl-friend... Before long everything turns into a mess of sexual tension...
Val,and i just don't see how this is going to happen. how i am going to keep getting up every morning and putting on the facade of living my life, and listening to music and going to work and eating and sleeping and getting dressed and taking a shower and all of these things that i do now because i must do them because if i don't do them then there is nothing to do and i am scared of the emptiness and i am scared of stillness and i am scared because i am beginning to realize that i have never been so totally alone before in my entire life, and that all of the other times i ever felt alone what i was really feeling was loneliness which is awful and difficult, but also different.
because loneliness is the feeling that yoou ought to have people around you, you ought to have this security and understanding and comfort and safety and companionship and trust and you feel like you ought to have it, like you had it once or remember having it, loneliness is missing it. it's wanting it and missing it and feeling like you need it and should have it but you don't and so there is this overwhelming sense of emptiness and you feel totally isolated even when surrounded by a ton of people. and i've felt that before and i understand the difference now.
because now i am ALONE. and the difference is that i don't feel as though i'm missing something that i once had or that i feel as though i ought to have things that i don't and mourning that absence. i just feel totally and completely alone. just. me. and i don't even have all of me anymore, cause i gave most of me away. most of me is off with henry, across the street. and i can't get me back. and i don't even want me back because it's a package deal and i can't get one without the other. i am just alone. and i feel and know this complete sense of nothingness that i don't know how to work my way out of. and i know people say it's possible and that they've done it and i know that they're right and they do, and f****** spare me, because in an ideal world i understand that that might happen for me to, but i don't believe in it.
i don't believe in it. the way i believe in things. to believe in something, to have FAITH in something, to have this knowledge this understanding that these things, any thing, are possible, i don't believe in this. i don't believe that this will ever end unless he ends it. and the only way he can end it is by, what, trite. cliché. happily ever after. f***.
i will get up everyday. i'm not saying i won't. i will. i will get up every single day and i will go through all the motions because there is no alternative so i'll do it and i'll pretend that there are things that are worth getting up for and there are but i won't ever have them.
My break-up hair color of choice is red.and it has come to the point in time where i must do what all girls must do eventually. today is the day.
it's officially time for break-up hair.
pictures later.
That's such a bitch. One minute, you're ready to try, and move on, and get over it; the next, you just want to die. I know the feeling. I've found that keeping myself surrounded by people helps me, so if that also works for you (and, honestly, even if it doesn't), it's wonderful to have people who care about you and are willing to be there for you, no strings attached.Breaking up (in particular this last break up) is one of the hardest things I've ever done in my entire life.
It's made much harder by the fact that the person who supposedly loved me desires to spread lies about you all over forums in the pettiest way possible.
I would like to state that these past few months have been the hardest of my life. I continually bounce back and forth from extreme depression and even suicidal thoughts to trying to get over everything and focus on friends and family that support me.
*wince* That's hard, and I know the feeling. I never compare(d) my current boyfriend to the guy I dated before him, but I know that, were we to break up, I'd compare whatever guy I dated next to him, and always feel like I was settling and like the new guy wasn't good enough.I'm also dating someone else.
It kills me. It kills me that I'll never give all of myself to this man that I'm dating, at least not now. Not yet. I'm not ready to do so.
It kills me that every chance I get, I compare him with my ex, who I loved more than anything.
I can't ever stop myself from doing that... I used to read my ex's emo LJ (as opposed to his normal one), because he talked about his romantic situation in there. And it hurt, because at the time, I was still in love with him. (This was almost two years ago, now.)It kills me that I read every one of his posts about me. That I can't stop. That I read everything - the blunt truth and the harsh exagerations of it.
Personally, I have a lot of respect for someone who is willing to do that, and I think it shows how willing you were to make sacrifices--even sacrifices that took part of yourself away--for him.I'm not innocent. I kissed another man. Albeit, we had been off and on for about a week at the time. My fault, but still. We were not officially together, and it was just a kiss.
I pulled back. Many times, actually, but eventually it just happened.
I called Cameron. I called and told him what happened. I apologized. He gave me an ultimatum - never see my friend Brian again, or lose him. I asked for him to give me until midnight, at least to say goodbye.
*sigh* While this may be unreasonable to say, and count as slander against a board member and all that, I think that quite enough has been said against this board member that I can make a few little statements about her break up:He couldn't wait.
He messaged me that I was a whore, and that he was going to show the world that. He had some extremely private pictures that I never would have agreed to if not in a commited, monogamous relationship that I trusted with all my heart. Without additional notice, while I was out saying goodbye, he posted these pictures all over my myspace, hacking my account. He emailed my father as me, claiming I was a whore in the literal sense. My younger sister was the one who found the pictures, and called me to come home immediately. My baby sister and my baby cousin saw as well.
I can understand that. So well.I forgave him. I asked him to prove to me he still loved me; to take me back. I nearly flew out, and he stopped me. I nearly drove out, and my mother stopped me. I still want to, despite how little he cares.
I'm failing out of school; debating suicide; going back to unhealthy eating patterns; and all around hating life. I break down at least once a week about wanting it all to end. I have no direction in life other than Cameron. I have no hope,no future, nothing.
So, yes. Breaking up is f****** hard as hell.
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