I just wanted to chat a bit about people's favorite reading orders, ideally what they think is the best way to read them the first time through.
I'm working on it as a section for my website, Trade Reading Order, which is all about organizing pulp and geeky books (mainly comics right now). I'm also reading through the series again in prep for shadows in flight (and I haven't read Ender in Exile or Shadow Puppets) while my Fiance is reading all the books for the very first time.
Here's the Ender's Game Reading Order as I've got it so far. It's mostly chronological by the events in the books, but I'm honestly not sure about the placement of War of Gifts - it's not that it doesn't take place around that point, I just feel like it might disrupt the flow too much. Maybe just because after completing it I felt like it really wasn't my favorite book.
It's been interesting to see how the reading order changed in the book releases as well. In my copy of Ender's Shadow, the books are listed in total chronological order. In my copy of Shadow of the Hegemon, the books are listed closer to what I have (the shadow books coming between Ender's Game and the rest of the "Ender Quartet"). The copy of War of Gifts lists them like that too, but then with Exile and War of Gifts after... which makes little sense to me.
So what do you guys think? I've never met anyone who actually read the Bean books between the Ender sequels and I'm about to hand my fiance the next book.. so I gotta make a final decision!

(as a total afterthought, since this is my most given away book through the rest of my life, I picked up a pile of them at a flea market recently - so I'm going to be giving away 8 copies of the book through my site. I know you already have a copy, but I thought I'd let you know anyway in case you really want one to give to a friend or lost yours. I'll be posting about it on the blog soon, though I haven't decided what the process for choosing will be. In the past it was random or first email.)