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Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 2:52 pm
by Luet
I got my annual and mammogram today. Very glad to have that over with for awhile.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 4:43 pm
by LilBee91
I should probably start going in for those. Annuals, not mammograms. They don't demand those of me regularly quite yet.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 5:42 pm
by Gravity Defier
I have an appointment first week of April; a sort of state of the ovaries appointment. I am dreading going because 1) I TOLD this guy I was gaining weight and it only happened after I went on this pill and he wasn't very helpful there and 2) I still remember the breast exam and the pelvic exam from last time and how stupid he made me feel.

I might switch to somewhere closer to where I am now, anyway.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 8:02 pm
by Luet
Alea, try to be firm and not let him intimidate you (if you see the same dr). You know your body. Ask to switch to a different pill and do as much research as possible ahead of time so you can have some options in mind (non pill options, even?).

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 8:53 pm
by Gravity Defier
I don't think he was wrong to put me on this pill, per se. I've very thoroughly looked at other options (I do not want injections, implants, patches, insertables like sponges or whatnot...what am I forgetting? There's probably a gum at this point :P ) and I'm not sure there's a better pill. The side effects are pretty similar and the one he switched me off of, while I never experienced weight gain, had other side effects I was mildly concerned about.

It was more the attitude he had when I suggested it might be causing the weight gain, like, "Well, stop eating so much."

Um, okay, thanks.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 12:34 pm
by steph
New recommendations are if your pap is clean of HPV, you can cut back to paps every 3 years! I love being disease free!

Also, I think I didn't actually have a period back awhile ago. I haven't had another one, so I think it was just a resurgence of post-partum bleeding. I'm hoping for a good long stretch of no menstruating!

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 4:54 pm
by Luet
New recommendations are if your pap is clean of HPV, you can cut back to paps every 3 years! I love being disease free!
I believe this is only true for over age 30 and if you have had two clean paps in a row. Also, you are still supposed to go for an internal and breast exam every year, so the only thing that you get to skip is the pap. Which is nice and all but doesn't really save much hassle.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 5:53 pm
by VelvetElvis
My partner and I have settled on our "baby" plan.

At this point, we still don't want children, and don't see them in our future. We understand that we are still young and have only been married for just shy of 2 years. At my next gyn I'll ask for an IUD. If we still don't want any babies in 7 or 8 years (when we'll both be 30), he'll have a vasectomy.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 5:59 pm
by Gravity Defier
only been married for just shy of 2 years
It feels, to me, like it's been much longer than that. In a good way.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 6:02 pm
by VelvetElvis
only been married for just shy of 2 years
It feels, to me, like it's been much longer than that. In a good way.

Me, too. I feel like we've always been married but also that the wedding was just last month.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Thu Mar 28, 2013 4:57 pm
by steph
New recommendations are if your pap is clean of HPV, you can cut back to paps every 3 years! I love being disease free!
I believe this is only true for over age 30 and if you have had two clean paps in a row. Also, you are still supposed to go for an internal and breast exam every year, so the only thing that you get to skip is the pap. Which is nice and all but doesn't really save much hassle.
Hmmm. She didn't say anything about over 30, but maybe she didn't because I AM over 30. She also didn't say anything about 2 clean paps, just one. *shrug* I did know I'm still supposed to go in every year for the rest, but (shhhhh) I'm likely to stretch those out as long as everything is going well, since I don't need to go in for birth control needs. It will be a weird switch to go in without baby stuff involved. All my annual exams over the last 8 years have been done in conjunction with pre- or post-natal appointments.
My partner and I have settled on our "baby" plan.

At this point, we still don't want children, and don't see them in our future. We understand that we are still young and have only been married for just shy of 2 years. At my next gyn I'll ask for an IUD. If we still don't want any babies in 7 or 8 years (when we'll both be 30), he'll have a vasectomy.
Isn't it great having a plan? Sounds like a great one for you guys!

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Mon Apr 01, 2013 4:14 pm
by LilBee91
I am studying genital infections and STDs currently and my textbook hinted a something rather alarming. Do women really treat yeast infections by putting yogurt in their lady parts?! I mean, I sort of see the logic (emphasis on the sort of), but that's just nasty.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Mon Apr 22, 2013 6:22 pm
by Gravity Defier
I've just started my period. Combine this with my dwindling food supplies (waiting until I have money to stock up...so, Friday) and stress from work, and I'm sitting here, pretty confident that zero is my only friend and that I'm leading a hopelessly boring non-existence of a life.

Oh, hormones, you slay me.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Mon Apr 22, 2013 6:26 pm
by powerfulcheese04
Hormones are the worst! I feel like they make my brain a crazy place. Then, when I know I'm hormonal, I start questioning which feelings are rational and which are crazy and sometimes I can't tell the difference. Yeah, crazy hormone town. I feel you.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Mon Apr 22, 2013 6:27 pm
by elfprince13
pretty confident that zero is my only friend and that I'm leading a hopelessly boring non-existence of a life.
Confident of a non-zero number of friends and a life that isn't actively horrific/out to get you? Based on personal observation of close female acquaintances, it sounds like it's going about as well as such things go. ;)

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Mon Apr 22, 2013 6:31 pm
by Gravity Defier
Kim, I daresay you've got more hormones raging through you than I do at the moment. Or if not more, then more active? I will know things about being female. One day.

Also, hey! Do you have or are you going to take any progress shots of your belly? :mrgreen:

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Mon Apr 22, 2013 7:02 pm
by powerfulcheese04
We have a handful! Then we stopped taking them because we got lazy.. we definitely need to start up again!

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue May 14, 2013 10:36 pm
by TerresaWiggin
So just recently I watched a documentary (available on YouTube) called Miss Representation, it was basically about the way media stereo-types women. Therefore, I was wondering, what do you think about the stereotyping of women by the media? Is it a big problem? Has it ever affected you personally? What do you think should be done to change it?

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue Aug 13, 2013 8:35 am
by Gravity Defier
TMI warning!

I was expecting my period yesterday or the day before and when it didn't come, I assumed I out-stressed it due to current work issues (we're short staffed, just lost our Youth Services manager) and so I didn't really prepare for its possible arrival overnight/this morning. Surprise, surprise, it came and I ended up bleeding all over zero. Poor guy, looked like someone took a knife to his crotch.

To top things off, I now feel physically ill. Thankfully, I have super-cookies to comfort me. :P

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue Aug 13, 2013 7:23 pm
by Luet
Oh my! (In George Takai's voice. :stoned: :stoned: )

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 9:09 pm
by steph
I can usually enjoy my time off from menstruating, but this time I have random cramping and random spotting with nothing actually coming to fruition. I never know if I'm going to start bleeding for real or not and it's really frustrating!

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 11:22 am
by steph
:grumble:

It's here for real. And I'm not happy about it. PJ's and resting for me today.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 7:07 pm
by Gravity Defier
Dear body, if you love me at all, you'll start bleeding normally and not with this weird not-really-a-period period that it looks like we're repeating from last month. Because that might mean the random nauseousness I've been getting for the past two months and the exhaustion aren't just school related and that would be BAD. SUPER BAD. Please just be stress, please just be stress, please just be stress.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 9:25 pm
by steph
Dear body, if you love me at all, you'll start bleeding normally and not with this weird not-really-a-period period that it looks like we're repeating from last month. Because that might mean the random nauseousness I've been getting for the past two months and the exhaustion aren't just school related and that would be BAD. SUPER BAD. Please just be stress, please just be stress, please just be stress.
*hugs*

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 11:28 pm
by elfprince13
Very yikes! (assuming, possibly badly, that my inferences about what might be meant by "BAD. SUPER BAD" are correct, based on my limited knowledge of Girly Stuff™)

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2014 6:36 am
by Luet
*super big hugs* and dear lord, there is no way I would be able to resist taking a test just to make sure.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2014 8:35 am
by powerfulcheese04
My left breast feels weird. I am always aware of my nipple. It's like... tingly. I hope this is not another bout of mastitis. Seriously, mastitis was the worst I've ever felt. Showering hurt. I was so painful and dizzy I didn't trust myself to carry lizzy up the stairs.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2014 9:21 pm
by neo-dragon
Hi ladies.

So I know this is kind of the antithesis of this thread, but I thought that some people here might find this to be most informative: "26 Things Girls Want to Know About Guys, But Are Too Afraid to Ask." http://www.buzzfeed.com/mrloganrhoades/ ... aid-t?bffb" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

Spoiler Alert: it's mostly about our balls.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2015 11:00 pm
by Gravity Defier
I was a big, big pile of hormonal, emotional mess today and it reeeeeaaaaallllyyy sucked.

I woke up just feeling blah, wanting to cry for some inexplicable reason, then went to my OB-GYN appointment, only to find the offices were not where the insurance website listed them as being. Showed up late, was my first time there, so I was filling out paperwork, and ended up seeing the doctor for 2 minutes after an hour of waiting. Had to leave immediately from there to work and it was down-pouring, bad enough that I almost had to pull over because the wipers couldn't keep up but not so bad that I did. No lunch because I went straight to work at my appointment and no dinner. Got home tired, still wanting to cry for some inexplicable reason, and zero was like, "Let's exercise!" :faceplant:

The whole time, my brain knew I started out with no reason to be so emotional but it also didn't care. Every little thing put me at risk for bursting into tears.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Fri Sep 11, 2015 8:14 pm
by Petra456
*hugs*

Days like that suck, do you have any tricks to help?

I had a night like that two days ago. I volunteered to make a dinner I really wanted to try and nothing went right and I ended up crying over crumbled meatballs.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Fri Sep 18, 2015 10:10 pm
by Gravity Defier
It was really just a day of trying to keep myself relaxed with loud music and slow breathing and hoping for the best. It only moderately worked, so I don't think it's much of a trick. :?

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2015 11:23 pm
by starlooker
Dry shampoo. Oh my gosh. It's amazing. I tried Dove ($4) last month and was kind of like, "meh, I guess it makes my hair tolerable if I use a ton." But then last night on a whim I picked up Batiste for $8 at Walgreens. Amazing. My hair didn't seem just tolerably non-greasy, it seemed CLEAN, except with enough grip to style. Had two people ask if I'd gotten a haircut. A++++ and I want to spam every retail website on the Internet with reviews. Hell, it's past bedtime and my hair seems cleaner than when I use a normal shampoo in the mornings.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2017 9:22 pm
by Gravity Defier
I had to pay a penalty charge for my birth control because I didn't use a 3 month supply option that I had been told for over two years I did not qualify for.

Now that is some straight up bullshit.

Re: Girly Stuff

Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2017 8:04 pm
by Satya
I have started needing and preferring girly shampoo for my long hair. :thumbs: