Cause Breakin' Up is (Still) Hard to Do

[Yebra]

So the spirit is "Your angry destructive posts are RUINING this safe place you piece of sh*t!"?

You're all as bad as each other. A subtle PM would do instead of angrily venting about someone else angrily venting.

I like this space, I'm still going to use it.


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Seeing them together for a second ruins a whole day of good feeling. Nothing I do seems to have any point to it, they're making new memories and I'm stuck here in the mud.

[Young Val]

wow. i was going to just sit back and keep my mouth shut and stay out of it, but this is getting ridiculous and i am FINISHED watching my name get dragged around by whoever feels like using it.

so, for anyone who is interested IN WHAT I ACTUALLY THINK, here you go.


cameron and nicole are welcome to post here. i NEVER said they weren't. ANYONE is welcome to post here. that is the entire point.

nor are they the only people who've posted things that are "unsupportive" of other members posts. PLENTY of people have done it by now. and had BEEN doing it before. most of whom aren't even experiencing a break up!!!

this is not a thread for my sole use. i thought i made that clear in my first post. i am not the only one who has the right to get support for a break up. part of what makes this thread work is that you are able to talk to other people experiencing the same thing. i WANT other people to post here. and that includes cameron and nicole and anyone else who wants to.

my only request was that if someone had posted something that you disagree with, you keep your mouth shut about it IN THIS THREAD. that's all! they can say whatever they want, as long as people don't start chastising them for everything they write.

and now look what's happened.

a few small unsupportive comments have EXPLODED. into this

and i won't be posting here again. this place has become a three-ring circus and if anyone thinks that i would ever venture to say anything even mildly vulnerable here ever again, you're all mistaken. of course the thread will remain up, and i hope that some of you can still make use of it. i'm not leaving the board, i'm not attempting to be melodramatic, but i am--not only thoroughly disappointed in the immaturity--but also deeply saddened that i feel this life line has been tainted for me.

so. there you have it. everyone is was and always will be welcome to post here. this is NOT a vendetta against cam OR nic, i've never ONCE named names here or done anything other than ask that you allow people an envirnonment to say what they need to say, even if it pisses you off.

so. don't any one of you DARE to use me in your arguments again. do you understand me? you kids can all fight until the sun goes down, but you leave my name OUT of it from here on in.

[ValentineNicole]

Can I just say I've only made one, stupid venting post on here, because I just figured it was about time that my side got told as well?

I respect Cameron.
I'm not going to bash him in any way.
Hell, I love the guy. I'm not going to get back together with him; I realize this now. But I still love and respect him with all my heart.

I didn't think I was making a big deal out of anything...

[mr_thebrain]

actually, i think everyone else was making it a big deal. classic "out of proportion" type situation.

[Jebus]

I blame the people who were lying in wait for DRAMA to happen, and jumped on the first possible opportunity.

But can you blame them? We're so deprived of drama around here. What was the last interesting thing that happened?

Anyway, I think that as YV was one of those getting the most out of this thread (the fact that she started it seems irrelevant to me) and since this thread has been tainted to her (which is a pity) the offending posts should be deleted, if she wants them to be.

[Yebra]

I'm going to the gym more, being totally exhasted seems to help.

[Hegemon]

I'm going to the gym more, being totally exhasted seems to help.

That's true. When I went through a similar problem when I was younger, I became a martial arts fanatic. Over 16 hours a week of training (with injuries and sickness), on top of a full school load.

[Yebra]

i can't do this

i have no motivation, no reason for working, i'm sick, i'm tired, i'm unhappy, she's not

it took so long to love her, to trust her so completely. and how that's gone, she doesn't

what am i doing here?

i can't do this

[AnthonyByakko]

Wow, I didn't know PeeWeb had it's own Livejournal/Myspace thread.

[anonshadow]

i have no motivation, no reason for working, i'm sick, i'm tired, i'm unhappy, she's not

it took so long to love her, to trust her so completely. and how that's gone, she doesn't

How do you know she's not unhappy?

Sometimes people are good at hiding that sort of thing, especially when they want to put on a good face...

*hug* Is that helpful?

[Yebra]

There's the way she laughs, smiles and looks happy around him. And the way she told me she's happy. I really wish she was hiding some deep unhappyness, but i don't think she is.

And yeah, it is. thanks

none of this is right

[Luet]

Wow, I didn't know PeeWeb had it's own Livejournal/Myspace thread.

In the intended spirit of this thread, if you don't have something supportive to add, please say nothing.

[Hegemon]

Wow, I didn't know PeeWeb had it's own Livejournal/Myspace thread.

... you have been here for like 3 weeks, soooooooooooooo.... how the hell did you miss it?

[VelvetElvis]

You know, if you beat the unsupportive people, I bet you could start to feel better.

[AnthonyByakko]

Of course I have something supportive to say.

Jock strap.

[eriador]

grow up.

[AnthonyByakko]

I see no incentive. It obviously hasn't worked for anyone here.

[VelvetElvis]

Ignore him, eri, darling.

[AnthonyByakko]

You have to TELL her to ignore me? Wow.

[VelvetElvis]

Be quiet, crankypants.

[eriador]

Ummm. How about we stop arguing about childishness and instead get back to our group therapy session?

[VelvetElvis]

I'm just an observer with the occasional comment.

[AnthonyByakko]

And I'm just A Most Unmitigated Bastard (SM)

[Dr. Mobius]

if you don't have something supportive to add, please say nothing.

nothing


(Sorry, I don't wish to further derail the thread, but I couldn't resist.)

[Jayelle]

I hate to do this guys, but I'm locking this thread. It's gotten way off topic and mean.

Someone feel free to start a new breakup thread. Or just use Bob.