Agreed on these parts (though I find "digusting" to be a bit harsh). I don't think I've ever heard a guy do that, but maybe I just don't notice.Never. [...] I think its a disgusting habit
The closest thing I can think of is when people try to drag in others so it's not like them alone are confronting you. "I was talking to <person> about <thing>, and we want you to stop <whatever>". Usually it's not at all the same, but that lead-in with "<thing>" can sometimes be overly long.