Antoinette Deborah Clark 1985-2008

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Postby fawkes » Sun Feb 17, 2008 6:39 pm

My sister was killed this morning by her boyfriend. If it's ok with you guys, I'd like to post about her once I feel more up to it.

So far all we've been able to do is just tell people and wait, so I'm telling people.

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Postby Eaquae Legit » Sun Feb 17, 2008 6:42 pm

Holy f***.

(((((Clark family)))))

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Postby Claire » Sun Feb 17, 2008 6:54 pm

oh my gosh I am sooo sooo sorry :( :( :(
I'm online a lot if you need to talk or let it out or ANYTHING.

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Postby fawkes » Sun Feb 17, 2008 6:58 pm

It's in the news http://www.9news.com/news/local/article ... ryid=86549

I... I don't know what to do. I'm afraid I'm going to say something or do something to make it worse for my parents.

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Postby Eaquae Legit » Sun Feb 17, 2008 7:07 pm

Tell them you love them. I'm lucky enough to not know from experience, but tragedy often makes people lash out because they're hurting. Try not to get angry with them, and as much as possible, don't take it personally if they get angry around you. Remember that it isn't you.

I'm so, so sorry this happened to your family. I can't imagine how you must feel. Don't be afraid to post here. All my prayers are with you and your sister and your family.
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Postby Dr. Mobius » Sun Feb 17, 2008 7:12 pm

*hugs*
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Postby fawkes » Sun Feb 17, 2008 7:16 pm

Both sets of grandparents are on their way, along with cousins and aunts and uncles. It's going to get crazy around here for a while, so I might not be able to talk for a few days. I can't tell you how much it means to me to have people who I can talk to right now. I'll be back later.

Thank you all so much.

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Postby Luet » Sun Feb 17, 2008 7:22 pm

I am so sorry. We're here for you. Take your time and talk whenever you feel up to it.
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Postby powerfulcheese04 » Sun Feb 17, 2008 8:11 pm

*hugs* *hugs* *hugs*

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Postby Gravity Defier » Sun Feb 17, 2008 8:11 pm

Oh my god...

Of course it's okay with us.

~~Clarks~~
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Postby steph » Sun Feb 17, 2008 8:56 pm

I'm so sorry, babe. PM me if you want and I'll give you my phone #. Also, I can meet you somewhere if you want to. Let me know. *hugs*
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Postby fawkes » Sun Feb 17, 2008 8:56 pm

Holy s***, my sister's dead. How could this happen? I just talked to her a week ago. It's not real, right? Everything that happened was a dream, right?

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Postby Jayelle » Sun Feb 17, 2008 9:21 pm

*hugs*

I'm so sorry, Erica. I'm just so sorry.
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Postby eriador » Mon Feb 18, 2008 1:04 am

f***.

f***.

Just keep in mind that everybody here loves you in their own way.

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Postby zeroguy » Mon Feb 18, 2008 3:51 am

Condolences.
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Postby jotabe » Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:05 am

Omg...
I really don't know what to say...
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Postby SaintDrogo » Mon Feb 18, 2008 9:36 am

Losing a brother or sister is so hard. I hope you come out of this okay, your family, too.

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Postby Rei » Mon Feb 18, 2008 3:36 pm

f****** hell... *hugs lots* It's been said by others, but I'll be adding my prayers to theirs for you and your family. Oi... And do post as much as you want or need and if you ever just need to talk, I'm sure almost any of us, including myself, would be more than willing to be there.
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Postby starlooker » Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:29 pm

*hugs*

I'm so incredibly sorry for you and your family's loss.
There's another home somewhere,
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There's another way to lean
into the wind, unafraid.
There's another life out there...

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Postby Tara » Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:45 pm

I'm so sorry.

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Postby fawkes » Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:06 pm

They're releasing her tomorrow. We'll get to see her in the morning. Dad went to the arraignment today. He has a friend who's dating a sherriff, so we've got copies of the court documents. I still don't know the whole story, but I'll probably find out soon.

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Postby Jezebel » Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:10 pm

I'm really sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you in this difficult time.
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Postby mazer » Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:13 pm

I'm very sorry, I hope you and your family are going to be okay
*hugs*

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Postby LilBee91 » Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:55 pm

*hugs*

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Postby Young Val » Tue Feb 19, 2008 12:45 pm

*hugs, hugs, hugs*

God, I am so sorry.
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well I have snozzed and lost
I'm pushing through
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I hear the bells
so fascinating and
I'll slug it out
I'm sick of waiting
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hear the bells are
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Postby mr_thebrain » Tue Feb 19, 2008 4:28 pm

damn. i'm sorry.

it's always weird when things like that happen to someone you know. i mean, that sort of stuff happens to OTHER people. i cannot comprehend the pain and sorrow you must be feeling. i won't even try. still, i extend my sympathy to you and your family.
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Postby Mich » Tue Feb 19, 2008 6:52 pm

God, I'm sorry.

There isn't much else that can be said. My sister and nephew are in an abusive situation, have been for several years, and every day we pray that we don't get a call like this. So I'm very, very sorry.
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Postby fawkes » Thu Feb 21, 2008 11:07 am

The service is tomorrow. I'm going to give her eulogy. I have no idea what to say. How do you sum up one person's life in five minutes? She was only 22. She never married, never had any children. I'm lost.

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Postby Rei » Thu Feb 21, 2008 11:16 am

*hugs* You will be able to do it. I hope that maybe, somehow, there may be some closure with the service. There will certainly be prayers for you and your family and those who knew her, tomorrow.
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Postby Jayelle » Thu Feb 21, 2008 12:09 pm

The service is tomorrow. I'm going to give her eulogy. I have no idea what to say. How do you sum up one person's life in five minutes? She was only 22. She never married, never had any children. I'm lost.
You can say that. That you feel lost. Everyone there will feel the same.
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Postby eriador » Thu Feb 21, 2008 1:31 pm

The service is tomorrow. I'm going to give her eulogy. I have no idea what to say. How do you sum up one person's life in five minutes? She was only 22. She never married, never had any children. I'm lost.
You can say that. That you feel lost. Everyone there will feel the same.
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Postby fawkes » Fri Feb 22, 2008 9:24 am

Well, this is it. Today is Toni's funeral. I'm going to miss my big sister. Well, my only sister. I hope I'm strong enough today.

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Postby Slim » Fri Feb 22, 2008 11:25 am

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Postby Rei » Fri Feb 22, 2008 12:02 pm

*hugs*
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Postby steph » Fri Feb 22, 2008 1:56 pm

I hope the service went well. My prayers are with you and your family.
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