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Postby jotabe » Fri Feb 22, 2008 3:01 pm

*hugs*
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Postby Petra456 » Fri Feb 22, 2008 4:57 pm

*hugs*

I'm so sorry.
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Postby fawkes » Mon Feb 25, 2008 1:14 am

Well, I've made it through one week. Most of the extended family has gone home, except for my grandmother and cousin Julia. Now what?

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Postby Claire » Fri Feb 29, 2008 3:30 pm

Still thinking about you, hope you're doing alright.

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Postby fawkes » Fri Feb 29, 2008 8:52 pm

I'm doing ok. Went to visit her today, actually. We're finally going to be able to get into her house tomorrow, so that should be good.

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Postby Rei » Sat Mar 01, 2008 12:06 am

*hugs* Hopefully that will go well for you and your family.
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Postby fawkes » Fri Mar 07, 2008 12:26 am

I'm still here. How'd that happen?

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Postby Rei » Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:12 am

However it did, I'm glad you're still with us.
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Postby Jayelle » Fri Mar 07, 2008 12:14 pm

Hey Erica,

Still thinking of you - feel free to post or not post. There are few words for a tragedy like this.
Don't let anyone pressure you into getting over things and realize that it may be hard for friends and family not to pull away- they probably don't know what to say.

But... generally, just keep living, day to day, hour to hour, moment to moment. Slowly. Life will not be the same, but eventually you'll discover what your life is now.
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Postby Dr. Mobius » Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:08 pm

This works here, I think.

I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?
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Postby fawkes » Tue Mar 11, 2008 1:18 pm

I miss my big sister.

If anyone is on facebook, look me up. There's a group for her there, too.

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Postby fawkes » Mon Apr 14, 2008 12:57 pm

Well, tomorrow was supposed to be the first hearing. My grandparents have flown in, I've taken four days off from work to prepare for (and recover from) it. Bastard's lawyers just filed a continuance. Now it's not happening 'til May.

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Postby puppets » Mon Apr 14, 2008 3:03 pm

Wow, I guess I came into this thread a bit late, but I'm terribly sorry about what happened.

The best thing though is, when she was alive, you and your family loved her. So she was able to lead a much happier life in 22 years, than most could lead in 70, at least I'd hope so.

Idoubt you remember me, but we signe dup around the same time I think, anyways, *hug*

Wish I could help.
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Postby Gravity Defier » Mon Apr 14, 2008 3:16 pm

I imagine this won't be the last time it gets postponed, but hang in there. I know it's of little consolation, but at least you have the chance to be around family.

Still thinking of you and your family.
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Postby fawkes » Mon Apr 14, 2008 7:41 pm

Right, so we're now looking at the 21st of May for the first hearing. This is sooooooo frustrating, I mean, I shoukd have figured they'd pull something like this, but we had the grandparents fly out specifically, and I took four dys off from work this week, and now nothing's even going to happen. GRRRRR!

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Postby Rei » Tue Apr 15, 2008 6:41 am

That really does suck. Hopefully it doesn't happen again and things can properly be finished soon.
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Postby fawkes » Mon Aug 11, 2008 10:32 am

*bump*

Quick update (if I had been telling you guys what's been going on, that's what this would be. Sorry, I'm a slacker). Anyway, just got back from an arraignment today, he pled not guilty (of course). Good news is, no insanity defense for him. Things are moving along, though rather slowly. The actual trial has to start by February 11th, though it could be later or earlier, we won't know until October. If there are any details you guys want to know, don't hesitate to ask.

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Postby Jayelle » Mon Aug 11, 2008 11:25 am

I can imagine it's frustrating to have to wait so long!

Has he been in jail this whole time?

Do you think you'll go to the whole trial, or will that be too difficult on you? I can't imagine having to go through all of that, but I guess it's good for closure, right?
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Postby fawkes » Mon Aug 11, 2008 1:57 pm

He's in county jail, no bail.

I've been going to every hearing so far, and plan to go to every hearing in the future, and so is my dad. Mom doesn't go to all of them, it's too hard on her. It's very good for closure, especially watching his idiot lawyer get her ass handed to her by a judge (very funny).

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Postby lyons24000 » Tue Aug 12, 2008 8:27 am

I just saw this thread because you bumped it. I just wanted to tell you that I am sorry about your loss and that I know how hard this is. I just had an aunt that was murdered by her husband for no reason. He just pulled out a gun and shot her one Sunday afternoon.

When they asked him why he did it he said, "I don't know."

So I just want to tell you that I feel for you more then you can imagine.
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Postby Edamame » Tue Aug 12, 2008 9:10 am

Gah, I know we don't know each other, but I am sorry to hear about your sister, and since I've worked criminal cases before, I'm glad the... Jerk... for lack of wanting to be edited or chastised for using my well trained potty mouth... will not be able to plead insanity. We all know how easily those bastards get away with things.

I do, though, hope he never gets to spend another day as a free man.
and that he gets raped repeatedly whilst in jail.

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Postby fawkes » Wed Aug 13, 2008 5:09 pm

Well, even if he did enter a plea of not guilty by reason of insanity, it can't be used because of willful intoxication (I think that's the term). Since he was on drugs at the time, an insanity plea isn't an option.

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Postby Ela » Thu Aug 14, 2008 7:17 pm

I am so sorry to hear this very sad news. :(


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