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Dear You, I'm not going to do what you did to me, because I've tried to learn from my mistakes and grow over the past decade. I've not always gotten it right but I'm trying. You seem content to hang onto hard feelings and s*** on my happiness in the pettiest of ways. That's fine. As I said, I won't ...

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Ha, I've gotten quite skilled at ignoring unsolicited advice, but even better at not putting rhetorical stuff out in the first place. It was a genuine question. My parents are both vaccinated but I'm uncertain about some other family members who live with my mom. zero will not be two weeks past his ...

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Bob, I haven't seen my parents since January 2020, and just barely at that. zero gets his first shot this Saturday, should be fully vaccinated by mid-May. I get my second on the 16th. I'm thinking I'll fly to go see them next month. Is that a bad idea? Not "Would people who've obviously stopped or n...

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Got a sudden, strong urge to talk to zero here even though I talk to him all the damn time at home.

zeeeeeeero. Can you hear me?

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I love seeing a little more life around these parts, lately. That has made me pretty happy, even if it's still minimal.

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Yay! Glad you're one step closer to safety.

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Dear Yous who celebrate,

Merry Christmas. I hope it's a bright spot in an otherwise s*** year.

Love,
Me

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Dear You, Whenever I get particularly stressed (which seems like it happens often in this pandemic), I dream that zero is doing to me what you did to me and I wake up feeling hurt all over again. Thankfully, he wouldn't do it and has never shown any signs of being toxic the way that you did from the...

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In a world where Trump is president and evil surrounds us, it's difficult to promote even fictional evil and hatred.

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Hoping it works out to use this for our first dance.

These How Sweet it Is or Stand By Me covers are also contenders, but may end up as processional picks.

Other music must and will include boy bands, Missy Elliot, Motown, and all your favorite cheese from the 80s and 90s.

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Only took a few months but I think I may have my engagement ring chosen. :) I have my eye on a venue, photographer, and caterer, too. Some music has been chosen. I hope it doesn't get too stressful down the road. It's going well enough right now. Engagement ring came in... oh, hmm, not sure when. C...

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Dear You, That was truly the most perfect response and I can't tell you how much joy it has given me. I saw it and my heart felt like it got bigger (figuratively, no known medical issues here). Thank you for being part of our story; we've always included you in it. Thank you for allowing me a glimps...

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Likewise don't have the time or energy to binge or read as much as I'd like. My workplace is closed and has been since mid-March, but I'm still pulling regular hours, and having to train not one but two new staff, which is more exhausting from home. Also still have my work-related volunteering, whic...

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Tiny ans I have moved in together and we keep fomd memories of this place even if we don't go on much. We used to live in the chat room back when it was active.
Happy to be a member of the met on pweb club

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Only took a few months but I think I may have my engagement ring chosen. :)

I have my eye on a venue, photographer, and caterer, too.

Some music has been chosen.

I hope it doesn't get too stressful down the road. It's going well enough right now.

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Your little one is adorable, Shannon!

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You two are offensively good looking.

Congratulations! Wishing you much happiness.

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Thank you. :)

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Help?

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Indeed. I used to live in the AIM chat. I've been having a rough go of it for months now. Keep thinking, every so often, how it would be nice to have my friends.

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Dear You,

Pretty sure I saw something that is no longer here. *hugs* I'm sorry. It all sounds pretty awful and definitely unfair.

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I'm so tired. 11 days off from work but 3 were travel days (the longest was 19 hours between the two stops) and 6 were split between two families. Just 2 to be at home and relax. I'm going to burn out from life. Also, just had zero help me move our bed and while it opened up the room, it also made i...

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Dear You,

I can't really be upset since I'm not surprised. That's just what I've always been to you.

Me

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Good. I'm glad she is doing okay, at least physically. Hope that applies to emotionally, too.

With all my heart, I hope that when she's ready to try again, she gets the baby she's been hoping for.

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There are no words for how tragic that is. My thoughts to your sister and family.

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I joined this site in 2004/2005 or so. I pop in every once in a while but haven't posted anything. I felt I should now. I got married when I was still active on this site. That was 12 years ago. Damn. I popped in in 2012 to announce I had a daughter. I've got three now. I love this place. I never f...

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Can you apply and defer for a year if accepted but you determine you need a break?

Good luck with the decision.

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Bob, First things first: I'm not, to the best of my knowledge, suicidal. So there's that. A great way to start a conversation. I am, however, really tired of miscommunications, misinterpretations, slights, etc. that suggest I am not a pleasant person, even when (especially?) I do it to myself and de...

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me: I'm going to propose to you in October 2019. Then we're going to get married in October 2021.
zero: Why a long engagement? I only want a year.
me: Because Trump should be gone by then. Plus, it's our ten year anniversary.

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I love you so hard, Teresa.

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Bob, I think I must generally suck at being a person or communicating, or come across as always angry/sad/depressed/needy/something. Without fail, whenever I'm looking for sympathy or gentle words of encouragement, I tend to get responses that indicate I'm coming across as much more desperate/sad/an...

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zero, shakes his non-dairy milk, opens it, smells it. We've had it longer than the US has been a country, it feels. Me: Is it bad? zero: I don't know, I can't tell. Me: You can't tell by smell? zero: No. Here, try a sip. Me: No. zero: C'mon, I can't tell. Me:...*grabs* ... Me: *gagging into the sink...

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Yay, you two!

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This year marks zero's and my 10 year friendiversary. We started talking sometime between May and July of 2008.

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